21 May 2025

A Tangled Web

I love the Anne of Green Gables series, right up to the later books about her children: Rainbow Valley and Rilla of Ingleside. But I haven't read any other books other than Blue Castle (which is great). So when I saw one of her other books A Tangled Web in the library I was excited.


It was published in 1931, and you can see the differences with the Anne books, in that they talk about cars and people being shocked that women were wearing dresses showing their knees and cutting their hair into a bob haha. I really enjoyed it. It took me a while to get into it because there were that many characters introduced right at the beginning and I kept losing track. But it soon all fell into place.

There were some amusing storylines and some really sweet and moving. Montgomery has a skill in that she creates characters that you care about.

[slight spoiler ahead]

I gave it 4 stars (out of 5), it lost a star because, although some of the storylines that interweave the book came to a happy ending, I wanted to know a little more. Like the storyline on little Brian Dark, a lonely orphan. It gave him a happy ending and the story finished, I would have just liked a chapter on how he felt and how his life improved following his happy ending.

I'm now reading a funny book called Can You Keep a Secret by Sophie Kinsella.

Happy reading!

Sarah xx


20 May 2025

My plans are threefold

 My plan today is threefold. 

1. Hang out washing.

2. Continue with project garden tidy-up

3. Meet up with L* and her boyfriend this evening (with G* and B* too of course) for pizza this evening. 

[G - husband, B - eldest daughter, L - youngest daughter]

I'm looking forward to seeing L. The last time I saw her B and I had travelled over to her university to help proof read her dissertation. She was a bit stressed, we spent all day in a cafe with me buying coffees and lemonades and lunch to keep us going. So it'll be nice to see her and just have a catch up. She's heading off down south with her boyfriend for various events. He lives down south with his mum and dad having finished university last year. So we probably aren't going to see much of her until graduation in July and I really miss her!

The garden is looking much better, although I managed to flatten our tiger lilies as I was trying to get to some nettles and ivy that had sprung up at the back near the fence. Honestly, you only have to look at a tiger lily and it collapses. I also noticed Coco had flattened some other tiger lilies to make herself a little bed in there 😂

They are very squished.

Because I have been so diligent with the weeding, there is no long grass anywhere, so I saved some for Coco. She loves to eat that grass and apparently it is good for her. Here is her little pot of grass haha.


Anyway, I must go hang that washing out.

Have a lovely day.

Sarah x

19 May 2025

Happy Days and Happy Homemaker Monday - 19th May 2025

Look at that sky! Beautiful

Good morning! It's been a while. Things have been busy. The weather has been beautiful and I have been feverishly working in the garden. Clearing weeds and planting some flowers. Living as we do in the shadow of the Pennines where the rain likes to settle you have to make the best of the dry weather. It has been GLORIOUS. In fact, it's been so sunny for so long that I can't believe that I am praying for a bit of rain. My front lawn is turning brown! It's cloudier today and there is a slight chance of rain, so you never know.

We've also been on a few lovely walks locally, and places where it is usually so muddy has been bone dry, even dusty.

Don't you think this tree looks a bit like it's shouting into the wind with the branches like its hair blowing behind? 

I've also made it to the final week 9 of the Couch to 5K programme. I am so proud of myself. I think I will stick to running twice a week (the programme has you running 3 times a week but I'm not a huge fan of running). My plan is to maybe supplement the runs with some swimming and going to the gym with my husband because I can go once a week with him as a guest on his subscription plan. At nearly 52 it was so hard to get into the running and I am still very slow but I feel much better and have lost a little belly fat too, which is good.


L, my youngest, has finally submitted all her assignments for her degree course at university. So it's just waiting for marking to be completed and then graduation in July!! She's bored already haha! But her boyfriend is visiting and then she's off down south to go to a football event (he's on a Sunday team) so that will keep her occupied for a while. B is off to Rome in Italy soon. A friend from the USA is visiting there so she will meet them there for a couple of nights. They are going to visit the Vatican as part of the trip.

Oh our oven decided to blow the electric this weekend. We got the electric back on but the oven is broken. We've had it for 11 years(ish) now so we've got a new one coming next weekend. Praise God for air fryers!! I could cook my salmon in there yesterday, and it came out nicely.

This afternoon B and I are going to the cinema to watch Thunderbolts which is a Marvel film. Should be fun.

Anyway, let's get onto Happy Homemaker Monday, hosted by Sandra at Diary of a Stay at Home Mom.


The weather in my neck of the woods:


I bet I'll be complaining about the rain by Sunday! 😂

As I look outside my window:

It's actually cloudy. A few breaks in the clouds. I can hear birdsong, which is such a summery sound. Today I've heard robins, wrens, willow warblers, blackcaps, blackbirds, chaffinches and chiff chaffs. Such lovely sounds.

Right now I am:

Sitting on the bed typing this up. It's 11:42 am here. So far today I've taken B to her volunteer role at a local animal shelter, had breakfast, done a bit of Bible study and read my book, then walked to meet her its a lovely walk through the country footpaths.

Something fun to share:

This post about gardening and friendship by Ryanne Molinari. It's so true, when you're pulling up weeds and working with living growing things it makes you ponder deep things. Like as I was pulling up some weeds some of my plants were being pulled out with them and it made me think of the Parable of the Tares (Weeds) in Matthew 13:24-43. Good friendship helps us pull out the weeds in our lives and their support network helps us not get pulled out too. Click on the image below for the link.


Also YouTube videos by Peter Santenello. He travels round the USA and makes videos as he chats to various people. I've watched one about Deep Appalachia and another at the US/Mexico Border with Arizona Sheriff. It's really interesting seeing other people's lives and perspectives. Really talking to people and not just hearing opinions in the news or on social media.

Thinking and pondering:

How hungry I am! I've been really hungry the past few days, like ravenous. I have phases like that. No doubt it's some kind of hormonal fluctuation like everything seems to be at my age haha!

I'm also pondering the things I need to do today. I need to do a post weekend house reset - tidy and quick clean round. I've washed my bedding and will hang it out after finishing this post. Then it will be past 12 noon, which I feel is an acceptable time to think about lunch 😂😂

On my bedside table:

Eyedrops, a pile of books, my diary, lavendar essential oil and coconut body cream.

On my TV:

Rewatching The Office (USA version). IT Crowd (British comedy from the 1990s) - just finished it. Season 1 of NCIS. Good American Family.

Listening to:

Birds chirping outside. Coco (our cat) washing herself - she licks so loudly! haha

On the menu for this week:

Monday: Lentil curry

Tuesday: Tuna pasta.

Wednesday: Chicken burgers.

Thursday: not sure, we are at a church event so it'll be something quick and easy.

Friday: Pizza, if I can get the top oven working, not sure if that one is broken too.

Saturday: don't know

Sunday: don't know

On my to do list:

Hang out bedding.

Go to cinema.

Tidy and clean house.

Maybe gardening if I have time - but at least water pots and hanging basket.

On my reading pile:

Tangled Web by LM Montgomery.

Currently in Job in my Bible reading plan.

Letters of CS Lewis.

My simple pleasure:

The smell of washed clothes/bedding after it's been hung outside to dry. It smells so much better than if it's dried indoors or in a dryer.

Looking around the house:

I need to paint the new doors G has hung. But the weather has been too nice for indoor work!

From the camera:


We went to see How to Train Your Dragon with a Liverpool Philharmonic Orchestra playing the music. It was AMAZING. Absolutely wonderful. If you see a similar thing being done in your neck of the woods, go! You won't regret it.

Bible verse, devotional:

"Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?" And he said to him, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbour as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets." Matthew 22:36-40

I was thinking about this in church yesterday. We had a visiting preacher and he was talking about grace. He gave an example, what would you say to a man who was drunk every day of the week and was unkind to his wife, but who said to you that it was OK because God forgave him because of grace?

There are many things you could say to this man, but it set me off thinking about the Matthew verse above. God is our father, a good father loves us. He doesn't want us drunk because alcohol in excess is so damaging to our health and behaviour. Any good parent wants the best for their children and it really hurts us when our children engage in self-destructive behaviour. Therefore to drink to excess is not loving towards God. And the way he was treating his wife was not loving towards her - he was mistreating someone who was nearer than a neighbour. So he was breaking the two commandments on which everything else hangs. Love God. Love people. We don't have grace from God so we can extra-sin, we have grace from God because of Jesus, because he loves us, wants the best for us, and hopefully that love which God has given in abundance would overflow from us so that our lives would be one of loving God and loving others. That should be our prayer...not 'how much can I get away with because of grace'.

I guess that might be a bit garbled, but that's where my mind went.

Have a lovely week.

Sarah xx

31 March 2025

Happy Homemaker Monday - 31st March 2025

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The weather.....

The weather is a bit up and down at the moment. Today has been OK, not too chilly and a little sunny. I hung my washing outside, which is good.



As I look outside my window...

Some clouds, but pretty bright. I can see my washing on the line and my primulas and winter pansies blooming nicely.

Right now I am....

About to go make tea (evening meal). We're having either lentil or chicken curry. I haven't decided yet.

Something fun to share...

Our visit last Friday to Chatsworth House. Here's the Link: Visiting Mr Darcy



Thinking and pondering...

That my garden desperately needs some work!

On my reading pile....

Just finished: The Anomaly, by Hervé Le Tellier 
Now reading: The Murder at the Vicarage, Agatha Christie
Next up: Return to Half Moon Farm, Holly Hepburn

On my TV.....

Just finished the Reacher series. We've also been watching season 1 of 24. Rewatching Stranger Things ready for the 5th season coming out this year.

Listening to....

The sound of the washing machine. L is back from university for Easter holidays and has returned with a bin bag full of washing!

On the menu for this week....

Monday: Lentil curry
Tuesday: Tuna pasta bake
Wednesday: Tofu stirfry
Thursday: Tandoori chicken flatbreads
Friday: Pizza
Saturday: Pork chop risotto
Sunday: not sure

On my to do list....

Garden
Paint new internal doors
Lots of washing

Happening this week....

Taking mum to the doctors tomorrow.

In the craft basket....

Some spring decorations that I'm making out of felt

My simple pleasure....

Eating a big chunk of cheese, like cheddar or red Leicester, when I am hungry.

Lesson learned the past week....

To always check how long your daughter is coming home from university!! We arrived to pick up L thinking she was just coming home for Mother's Day weekend, but her Easter holidays had started and she is home for a month! We had taken no bags or suitcases. So we filled up the car with washing baskets and bin bags and carrier bags of her things 😂

Looking around the house....

Needs a bit of a clean. I haven't had chance today. I dropped B off at her volunteer job this morning. Came home, had my breakfast and watched some Stranger Things while the food settled. Did one of my week 4 Couch to 5K runs. Came home. Showered. Then B rang to say that my mum and dad wanted to go out to lunch, so we did that. Afterwards mum and dad came in our house to chat for a bit. They went home and now it's 5:45 pm and I don't know where the day went!!

From the camera....

Lovely daffodils from G for Mother's Day:



Things I am thankful for.....

* Playing Dungeons and Dragons with friends last Wednesday. So much fun! 
* A lovely day out with G on Friday to Derbyshire, including the visit to Chatsworth House that I mentioned earlier. 
* L being home from university, I do miss her when she is away.
* Lovely gifts for Mother's Day from B, L and G (including Kate Rusby tickets!! She's an English folk singer), and nice visits with family on Sunday.

On my prayer list.....

My family, continuing to pray for mum and dad, as dad cares for mum.

Bible verse, Devotional....

“We'll never comprehend all the great things he does; his miracle-surprises can't be counted.” Job 9:10


Sarah x

Visiting Mr Darcy

On Friday last week we visited Chatsworth House in Derbyshire, G had taken a day off work to complete a fire risk assessment for a friend at their holiday cottages. Chatsworth is the home of Peregrine Cavendish, the 12th Duke of Devonshire and his family. You might know it better as the location of Pemberley in the 2005 Pride and Prejudice film. In fact, it is thought that Jane Austen used Chatsworth House in Derbyshire as the basis for Pemberley, Mr Darcy's House. 

It was a beautiful day, if a little cold and windy.

Elizabeth was delighted. She had never seen a place for which nature had done more, or where natural beauty had been so little counteracted by an awkward taste. They were all of them warm in their admiration; and at that moment she felt that to be mistress of Pemberley might be something! 

Pride & Predjudice, Ch. 43

The house is beautiful and the grounds are too. The only point of disappointment for me is that some bits of the house are always given over to some kind of modern art, and that's not my cup of tea. But each to their own!

Visitor entrance

You may recall, if you've seen the Keira Knightly film, how she looks about with wonder at the painted ceilings in the hall? This is known as the Painted Hall.


It really is quite beautiful.



Can't remember which bedroom this was


State Drawing Room

State Music Room

State Music Room: The walls here are stamped and gilded leather.

State Bedchamber

Silk Shepherdess Costume, worn by Duchess Evelyn aged 29 while in India (c.1889)

The tiny waist on this dress is ridiculous! It's about the width of my leg. Crazy.

Library

Sleepy kitty

Mr Darcy bust as used in the film

This made me chuckle 😂


It was a lovely tour. We had lunch in the Carriage House Café on site, which was very tasty. We both had Homity pie, chips and seasonal veg. We took a good look round the gardens, which are huge and beautiful.


10 March 2025

Happy Homemaker Monday 10th March 2025

Howarth Parsonage, home of the Brontës.

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I'm not sure what is happening with fonts in this post! I've faffed around trying to sort them out for too long... haha

The weather.....

We've had a lovely few days weather-wise. Sunshine and a bit warmer. Today it is still sunny but much cooler, but the sunshine just makes everything feel so much better.


As I look outside my window...

Lovely sunshine! Blue skies and not a cloud to be seen, a little hazy in places.

Right now I am....

About to go empty the washing machine and then do my couch to 5K run and meet B after her volunteer job.

Something fun to share...

I'll share what we got up to this weekend: Brontë Parsonage visit.

Thinking and pondering...

What to do on this beautiful day!

On my reading pile....

From Venice with Love, Rosanna Ley

On my TV.....

Severance. Modern Family. Reacher.

Listening to....

The washing machine humming and the birds singing.

On my to do list....

Clean around, Couch to 5K run, hang washing out when the machine finishes, bob to the shop for something for lunch.

Happening this week....

  • Planting some honeysuckle that I bought at the garden centre this weekend
  • Taking mum to a hospital appointment on Wednesday
  • Cleaning for mum and dad on Thursday

My simple pleasure....

Cup of coffee in the morning! The buzz of bees - I was so excited to see my first bee of Spring this weekend - it was HUGE, I'm thinking maybe the queen??

Lesson learned the past week....

That you need to live YOUR life, not someone else's.

Looking around the house....

Two lovely bunches of flowers (including some roses that are still alive from February!). Sun coming in through the window. Ahhhh lovely.

From the camera....



On my prayer list.....

Mum and dad's health and wellbeing.

Bible verse, Devotional....

Don’t be obsessed with getting more material things. Be relaxed with what you have. Hebrews 13:5

Have a lovely week!

Sarah xx

Brontë Parsonage, Haworth

We took a visit to the Brontë Parsonage yesterday. It was a lovely day, but a little cold. the Brontë Parsonage is, as you may have guessed, the family home of the Brontë sisters.


It's quite a tragic story really Patrick Brontë (father) married Maria Brontë (mother) in 1811 and they moved to Haworth in 1820. Maria lived until 1820 when she died of possibly uterine cancer or sepsis from complications during Anne Brontë's birth. 

In 1814 Maria Brontë was born - she lived until 1825 when she died of tuberculosis. 

Elizabeth Brontë (born 1815) also died in 1825 a few months later from tuberculosis. 

Charlotte Brontë (of Jane Eyre fame) was born 1816 she lived until 1855 when she died most likely from dehydration from excessive vomiting during pregnancy (although her death certificate states phthisis i.e. tuberculosis).

Branwell Brontë was born 2017 he was an artist and writer, he had addiction problems mostly alcohol and laudanum and opium. He died in 1848 from malnutrition and bronchitis (possibly tuberculosis). 

Emily Brontë (of Wuthering Heights fame) was born 1818 and died from tuberculosis less than 3 months after Branwell in 1848.

Anne Brontë (of Tenant of Wildfell Hall fame) was born 1820, she died in 1849 from tuberculosis.

This is a very depressing run down, but how tragic - no wonder their books are renowned for dark and tragic themes. Patrick himself, however, lived until he was 85! 

Haworth at the time was an awful place. Local reports say that the drinking water was contaminated by overflowing cesspits and a graveyard that was overcrowded and leaking fluids into the water table 💀😷 EW!! There are suggestions that this would have impacted the health of the Brontës significantly. Maybe such living conditions weakened their health and made them more susceptible to tuberculosis, or they didn't die from tuberculosis but sickness brought on by living in such an unhealthy place and the doctors (who didn't believe in germs but instead 'miasma' - bad air) didn't fully understand what they actually died from.

I don't think it leaks anymore 👀

Haworth is much more pleasant now, lots of lovely cafes and cute shops:

Look at that sky!

Anyway, here are some pics around the house.

Patrick Brontë's study


Dining Room

Kitchen

Charlotte Brontë's wedding bonnet


One of Charlotte Brontë's dresses - she was so tiny!



Branwell's bedroom and art studio



So there you go. It was very interesting and a little dark. When we got outside the rooks were cawing in a very spooky dramatic fashion, it was quite fitting.